'safe' 'privelege'

things being 'safe' and being aware of 'privilege' in intention are great, without a doubt. but for the aware (male) character to have to be on guard at all times... well general themes of 'being a decent person' or just 'having self awareness' seem to be overruled by a very specific context. it's fair because we live in that particular context, but I just wish people would think more abstractly for the good, at least in a way that can be applied in real life.